Unleash Your Wild Story: How to Use Your Monthly Couples Journal

So, you’ve got your hands on the latest edition of Our Wild Story – congratulations! You’re embarking on a journey of deeper connection, meaningful conversations, and shared reflection with your partner. But where do you begin? This post is your guide to making the most of your monthly couples journal and truly unleashing your wild story.

Setting the Stage for Connection:

Before diving into the prompts, create a space that fosters connection. This might mean lighting a candle, putting on some soft music, or simply finding a quiet corner where you won’t be interrupted. Put away your phones (seriously!) and make this dedicated time for just the two of you. Think of it as a monthly date night with a twist.

Timing is Everything (or is it?):

Our Wild Story is designed for monthly reflection, giving you space to breathe and truly process your experiences. Don’t feel pressured to complete the entire journal in one sitting. Some couples prefer to dedicate a specific evening each month, while others prefer to spread it out over a few days. Find what rhythm works best for you and your partner. The key is consistency, not speed.

Diving into the Prompts:

Each month, you’ll find a curated set of prompts designed to spark meaningful conversations. Some will be lighthearted and fun, while others might delve into deeper emotions and experiences. Approach each prompt with an open mind and a willingness to be vulnerable.

Read the prompt aloud: This simple act can help you both focus and ensure you’re on the same page.
Reflect individually: Take a few moments to consider the prompt on your own before sharing your thoughts. This allows for more thoughtful responses and prevents one partner from influencing the other.
Share and listen: This is the heart of the experience. Listen actively to your partner’s responses, even if they differ from your own. Remember, the goal is connection, not agreement.
Be honest and open: Vulnerability is key to deepening intimacy.

Beyond the Prompts

Our Wild Story isn’t just about answering questions; it’s about creating a shared narrative. Use the journal as a springboard for further conversation. Let the prompts inspire you to explore related topics and share your own stories. Jot down additional thoughts, memories, or inside jokes that arise during your discussion. These little moments are what make your wild story unique.

Creating a Keepsake:

Our Wild Story is designed to be more than just a journal; it’s a tangible record of your journey together. At the end of each month, take some time to reflect on your conversations and what you’ve learned about each other.

Making it Your Own:

There’s no right or wrong way to use Our Wild Story. Experiment with different approaches and find what works best for you as a couple. Maybe you enjoy journaling over a glass of wine on a Friday night, or perhaps you prefer to curl up on the couch with a cup of tea on a Sunday morning. The most important thing is to create a few monthly rituals and enjoy the process of connecting with your partner.

Embrace the Journey:

Our Wild Story is an invitation to explore the depths of your relationship, to celebrate your love, and to your story together. Embrace the journey, be present in the moment, and allow yourselves to be vulnerable and authentic with each other. The rewards of deeper connection and stronger bonds are immeasurable.

So, grab your journal, find your partner, and start writing your wild story together! We can’t wait to hear about the connections you make and the memories you create. Share your experiences with us on social media using #OurWildStory or contact us– we’d love to be a part of your journey!